Wednesday, September 21, 2011

Uncovering my eyes!

About two or three years ago, I was working with a person that proclaimed to be doing great things in the community, but I found out that to be untrue. I worked, worked and worked for such an individual, that now looking back at the character it totally sickens me to my stomach.

I was around to witness first hand some of the simple minded techniques on how people where being taken advantage of, put down, let down, mistreated all for the sake of community. I found that it was just so wrong on every level. As I began to dig deeper into the foundation and how it was designed to gain the attention of others for STATUS & POPULARITY, I started to pull away, but it was so hard to do, because I indeed felt a very strong connection and was begin pull by the forces it had on me. I know that may sound strange, but it's the total truth. My gifts that God blessed me with, where being EXPLOITED for the sake of the organization.

You know experience has a funny way of showing what is REAL! I was indeed hurt by it, and I sure do hope and pray that no other individual will fall prey to this. So desiring to belong to a great cause, if you really look deeper within yourself there you'll find that you belong to THE MOST HIGH! You don't need to be misguided to do the wrong thing, and I'm not saying I didn't learn a few things along the way, but it caused me to question the motives of what was being done. Please don't get me wrong, when I was  pushed away from the organization I was deeply hurt, because the heart that God gave me, a love for his people, the mistreated, less fortunate, the oppressed I can truly say that lending a helping hand to someone in the time of need is the most rewarding thing ever I believe. This is Real Talk!



Now back to the situation at hand. Well, I worked with this organization and saw a great deal of lies, greed and untrustworthy individuals.  BEFORE you get involved with people on a business level. I strongly suggest that RESEARCH them, talk to others that may know them or have even worked with them, I mean professionally, socially because when we tend to get involved it brings a great since of negativity to your circle.

When you're trying to build your character, brand and business this isn't what you need, but once I realized what was going on and I moved away, My businesses start to grow rapidly beyond my wildest dream. So when God begins to remove people from your circle accept it and move into your destiny. This was a wolf in sheep's clothing. Scary by far, but true on every level.


This was an experience that I had to learn the hardway, I'm not bashing anyone, but I'm just saying what happened to me, I was very surprised when it began to unfold, makes you wonder why its so hard for us to truly trust people......opps! My bad the bible says trust NO MAN!!! So there you go I was in error right from the start. Now looking at it.... The thief cometh not, but for to steal,and to kill and destory. John 10:10. Does these characteristics jump out at you? Yeah I know, if I had know then what I know now, I would've been for the hills for cover.



Thursday, September 15, 2011

This road I travel isn't easy, but I know that I must stay on course
With all the twist and turns it can get a little bumpy at times
I have never been the one to like to take detours, even thought there maybe a road block
Looking around the sign
I wonder if I can still cross or pass through it, even if I have to grab hold of the edge
The wind is blowing and it begins to rain
Ones that I thought were my friends are showing me their other face
As stay on my journey to success 
I will stop and help those in need 
I will continue to pray for others
My Journey is not over it has just begun

Watch me as continue with this process, it has been a road that hasn't always been easy, but I'm ready. This is a road that I must travel alone, but not all alone because I have traveling Grace and Mercy. And with God on my side I'm never alone. 






Wednesday, September 14, 2011

Why I Dance?

                                                       Why I Dance


I dance to be free with wind, dance is my friend
It doesn't judge me, when I dance I express what I feel
With each twirl and spin every movement that make the soul is ready to escape
Learning to enjoy the space in time which seems to stand still

Beyond leaps and bounds, dance can turn a frown upside down
Tears trickle down my face
My heart is in tuned to the pace
The joy that feels my heart and mind
With dance I leave ALL my worries behind

God is the reason I dance
I dance to worship HIM
I dance to praise HIM
My movements are divine and sacred
My dance is one of a kind

My Dance, My Praise, My Love
I can truly express what I feel in movement.






Wednesday, July 27, 2011

My Book

This is not a figment of my imagination nor an illusion

I've always wondered why I had to endure the things I have

All the twist and turns, ups and downs, and I'm still here to tell my story

I thank God for the trials that I've gone through, I know now that I must stay true to him and myself

So many people seem to somehow know what is best for me

All I can say please, I've had dreams and my dreams have had dreams



My heart has endured so much pain

In the mist of all this gold rain

Passing the sun and midnight sky

I fall to my knees and ask the Lord why

Stop pointing your finger in my direction

Because God is the only one that can give correction

You have my heart Rodney!

I know that it wasn't easy to break the chains from my heart

Deep down inside I knew you where the right one from the start

The moment I laid eyes on you that you where my soulmate

We both knew that our love wasn't going to be a easy piece of cake



You are my everything

You make my heart sing

All my life I dreamed of having someone to love me

Along came you and set my heart at ease



When you're near I have no fear

Some have said we would never make it

Our love and romance has stood the test of time

The way you look at me makes my mind, body and soul free



My words could never be enough to express my love for you

Even after all we've been through

All of our ups and downs

We made through every single round



We are like Bonnie and Clyde,we are going to ride it out to the end

YOU ARE MY BESTFRIEND!

I love you more than you ever know

Each day that our love grow



I love you and will marry everyday.

I Can Only Live For Today

The moment that I opened my eyes this morning

I began to thank God for allowing me to see another day

He told what happen yesterday is gone, and today is going to be a brighter one with many benefits

As I begin to pray and thank HIM for all the things HE has done in my life, and even what HE is going to do



All I could do is cry out to HIM.

My life is nothing without HIM

The word says I can do ALL things through HIM that strengthens me.



I trust a believe that whatever I'm about to face HE will be there with me.

I use to fear what others' thought and how they would hear what I have to say

This day the Lord has made, and this day I will abide in Him

This day is not giving to the swift, but the strong



I can only live for today

No matter what it looks like

No matter what others' think

No matter how I feel or how much I wanna give up



This is the day that I can only live for today.

Yesterday is gone

Today is now

Tomorrow is the future



Tomorrow isn't promised to me

I Can Only Live For Today

I see that the writings have been on the wall for a longtime

I must now learn that I can't change what happens,

I can only go through in order for me to get to the next chapter



I never pretend to be more than I am

My heart is true

I'm a friend

I'm not a fighter



I have the love of MY GOD on the inside

My heart will not allow me to mistreat others

Nor will it allow me not to help

I Can Only Live For Today

Sunday, July 17, 2011

My Pain

It is a like no other
All I can do get up under the covers
Turn out all the lights and pray that the pain will soon take flight
The joult of lighting raids my body
I can't run nor can I hide

This pain is ruining my days and nights
I try to deal with it as much as I can
But I think it has another plan
So I sit still and wait for it to leave

I wonder why it picked me
Can I just be free?
Don't know why it is with hear
I will be happy when it gone

Friday, June 24, 2011

Mobile Me

What a funny expression
Connected by my mobile
Connected via Facebook, twitter, websites
I'm going global

International yeah!
That is what I'm saying
Reaching for the stars
I'm make it

Those that doubted my talent
You don't know who you messing with
Danibadchic is what they use to call me
That name I've out grown

If you wanna know my story
Get your weight up, get in line and hear me roar
Don't forget I'm not taking score
Back to Front
And side to side
Best believe I can't hide

As a matter of fact I'm Mobile
Mobile going global
Internationally yes!
I AM DANI DIVA!

Sexy is as Sexy can be.

Looks that can stop traffic
Smile as bright as the sun
Mind that can make dreams become reality
Speech that can have you hanging on my every word

The sway in my hips
Lol I think I'm let my backbone slip
I'm rocking my locs
Can't believe all this talk

People tend to talk the talk
Never wanna walk the walk
Put your money where your mouth
Giving all you unwanted 2 cents

So true talk is cheap
But can you back it up with your actions
Call me what you wanna
I don't care
Because in the end I'm still gone be me!

Better yet you do you I'm do me!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

The Mini Me's Of Will and Jade Smith

I just recently had a chance to read the article on cnn, where it was discussing the most popular children in Hollywood the Smith children these children were and are destine for greatness with superstar parent with have surpass them in the media these tiny mini me's of Jada and Will Smith still have many years in the industry, from movies, to talk shows, album release, red carpet events, and commercials there is no limit to what they will do next.

They have real style and an even bigger personality far beyond their years the parents of these mega heartthrobs other children desire to be like them, and other parents recognize the game so we can best to believe that they take over the entertainment world. With their parents pushing them every step of the way.

Now this sibling power pack has teamed up with Justin Bieber and will sure to make a few more connections in this industry.

With Willow begin signed to Roc Nation Label that belongs to Jay-Z and her parents writing a movie where an afro american girl can be casted as Annie seriously.

Saturday, May 28, 2011

I AM DANI DIVA

The phrase “…but I love me... I AM DANI DIVA" is the foundation of my life. It means I make a choice to love myself, as I am, before anything else. Women nurture by nature, and at times we can end up at the bottom on life’s “to do” list jammed between work and taking care of the family. For me, daily demands aren’t as overwhelming when I make time to “love me" "I AM DANI DIVA" and face it with a clear mind and spirit and soul . Instead of snapping on everyone when I'm having a day. I can then take a second, and gather and choose a better way to handle my frustration.

Putting myself first was not an overnight project. In my early twenties, the condition of my life was so low and I lived in a fog of depression. I’m talking the kind of pain that had me in bed on a beautiful day and had me in tears at the sight of my face. I constantly placed so much validation from what others ahead of my own satisfaction. On a good day I felt like crap and amplified my self-criticism by comparing myself to others, making excuses as to why I wasn’t living to my own potential. “If I just had ____ I’d be happy!” I'm just saying.

It took years and a lot of courage to admit that I deserved and/or should love me I AM DANI DIVA more then all of that stuff. When I eventually put the haters on mute and did me, I grew confident with my own company and others took notice, encouraging me to do more.

Being alone with my thoughts then allowed me the time to explore my interests; I discovered things I didn’t even know I liked! Best of all, I found a spiritual practice that deepened my life and pushed me further. Instead of being jealous of successful women, I recognized my own value and opened my life to lasting friendships and we could all grow stronger as a team.

By extracting the "message from the mess" I guide readers along a path to loving themselves more through acceptance, accountability and action. Acceptance for what you are and are not, accountability for your role in the madness and lastly, concrete action in order to see results. It is not my intention to tell you how to be happy, I simply want to remind you that it’s possible and you deserve it.

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

This is who I am

I am never a big push over, but I just do the best that I can in begin that better person. Always trying to find a inner peace within myself. This these are just my random thoughts. Thoughts on the mind of a DIVA! There will be more to come soon. Please subscribe and invite others to join.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

My Inspirations

To be honest there are so many things that inspire me. One thing is my family, wanting to do more and not continuing to look at things too hard and too long. Then you begin to second guess what you are already know. Know that I can overcome anything with just a little time and patience.

My Stories

I would like to say thank you so much for your support. Without it this wouldn't be possible. My life at this time has been one ride after another, but I made it through with flying colors. I'm a mother of 3 teenagers, and wife which I enjoy so much.

Feeling the need to embark on a whole need chapter in this area of completion. I'm working on a book titled " Forbidden Romance " which I'm very excited about writing, still in the beginning stage at this time. I can say that it's more than likely it'll be a 3 part series. There are so many things that I've done of over the years. I attended "The School of Hair Design".

Which I completed and obtain my diploma and went in to get my Cosmetology license. Later I also attended " Tennessee Academy of Cosmetology" and "The New Wave Hair Academy" which is now "The School of Hair". And also became an instructor at both schools. I'm also a former salon owner of "Perfection of Beauty" and a beauty advisor for Avon. This has been one of my dreams is to have an online magazine for many years and now I have one "So Fyh Magazine Online". This magazine is very new I started this magazine in 2010 at the end of the year actually on my birthday. The name So Fyh was originally was supposed to be a book / magazine, but it ended up being other businesses, which was cool.

This journey that I'm on in life has really taught me a few things from what it means to struggle as a woman, looking to find her own identity in motherhood, wife, daughter and even as a friend. I've never really done things that would've made my life easier, but sometimes I needed to find me. Please don't misunderstand what I'm expressing, I am not so far gone when people try to speak to me, that I act as if I'm above all. I'm nothing like that. I'm a dedicated, loyal and very compassionate woman about others feelings and always finding myself coming up with the short end of the stick.